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Do You Ejaculate Too Fast During Sex? Stop! 3 Things About Premature Ejaculation You Should Know!

By Lloyd Lester, Creator, EjaculationByCommand.com

Am I ejaculating too fast during sex? Do women find my lack of sexual stamina laughable? Am I really pleasing my girl in bed each time I have sex? Do these sound like questions you have been asking yourself lately? If they do, don’t be ashamed about it. In fact, as many as forty percent of men have some issues about not lasting long enough in bed. So you are definitely not alone in finishing too soon during sex. Some guys have it so bad that they ejaculate the moment they penetrate their partners.

If you are like many men who wish they could last longer, you probably have many questions about premature ejaculation. If so, this article is just for you. Keep reading as we find answers to three common questions asked.

How long does the average man last in bed?

Five to ten minutes is a common yardstick, although most men are closer to five minutes. Considering the fact that most women take an average of fifteen minutes to reach an orgasm through vaginal penetration, it only means that the vast majority of women are unable to experience the full pleasures of lovemaking.

Is lasting longer always better?

Most men think so. BUT here’s the simple truth. You only need to last as long as it takes for her to get an orgasm. And it does not even need to be through vaginal penetration! You see, women are capable of reaching a climax through a variety of means. Foreplay, oral sex, and yes – even, mental seduction is known to cause an orgasm in a woman! As long as she receives her orgasm, the amount of time you spend penetrating her does not really matter. Hint: Take your time during foreplay and bring her to a climax before intercourse. Even if you do not last 30 seconds into intercourse, you are way better than 99% of all men!

I want to impress a hot date in bed at short notice… what can I do?

There is a quick and easy way to sort this out. Masturbate about an hour or two before you are due to have sex. By “clearing up your pipes” and releasing your sexual tension, your penis will become less responsive and it takes longer to stimulate it to the same levels of excitement. This stop-gap measure can easily add crucial minutes when you have sex. And she wouldn’t know a thing about it, either!

About the author:

Lloyd Lester is the creator of “Ejaculation By Command“, a complete, step-by-step blueprint to help men permanently end premature ejaculation and last longer in bed. Learn how you can develop superior sexual endurance and enjoy transformative sex by visiting: Ejaculation By Command.

How to Use Masturbation to Beat Premature Ejaculation

How to Use Masturbation to Beat Premature Ejaculation (Secrets to Boost Stamina in Bed Exposed!)

By Lloyd Lester, Creator, EjaculationByCommand.com

If you have been wondering about how to beat premature ejaculation and increase your stamina in bed, you will want to read this now. Did you know that masturbation – if performed in the right way – can boost your sexual stamina? It’s true. However, there are 4 important tips you need to remember if you are ever going to make a success out of it.

Tip #1 – Don’t Ever Do It Without the Right Lubricant

The purpose of masturbation, especially when you are doing it to last longer in bed, is to make the experience as close as you can to normal sex. When you masturbate without a lubricant, your penis becomes extremely sensitive to a dry hand. So, once you start your experience with your woman, your penis will not be able to adjust to a warm and moist environment. Always use a lubricant when you are masturbating. It is the smart thing to do.

Tip #2 – Do Not Rush Through It

Men are naturally hardwired to stimulate themselves to ejaculate quickly during masturbation. But to adapt masturbatory techniques to boost sexual endurance, you have to do it differently. Take it S-L-O-W. If you are the type who gets it over in one minute flat, you may have a tough job getting used to it. Here’s the trick: Stop all stimulation when you feel close to a climax.

Remember, masturbation should be a process of training when you have premature ejaculation. Rushing through it – no matter how eager you are about getting off – is the worst thing you do. You should progressively stretch the process out to 15 to 20 minutes, so that you reap real benefits from this technique.

Tip #3 – Do Not Get Distracted

The right time to train yourself is when you are relaxed, and not likely to be distracted. If you are in a hurry, just don’t do it.

Tip #4 – Avoid Getting Overly Excited

Most men go about using this technique in an incorrect manner. You see, some men will watch pornography until they start getting an arousal. Then they start to stimulate themselves. That is wrong. Ideally, you should be building up the arousal right from the start. It is only then that you will understand when and how to control your arousal, which is the most vital component in helping you enjoy longer lasting sex without ejaculating early.

Remember, you can use masturbation not just for your own self-seeking pleasure, but as a super effective springboard to control your premature ejaculation. These four tips will get you started the right way.

About the author:

Lloyd Lester is the creator of “Ejaculation By Command“, a complete, step-by-step blueprint to help men permanently end premature ejaculation and last longer in bed. Learn how you can develop superior sexual endurance and enjoy transformative sex by visiting: Ejaculation By Command.

How to Treat Premature Ejaculation Naturally

How to Treat Premature Ejaculation Naturally – A Simple 4-Step Strategy to Boost Your Sexual Stamina

By Lloyd Lester, Creator, EjaculationByCommand.com

Achieving a permanent fix to your premature ejaculation problem (PE) is the most important thing that any guy can do. Although there are plenty of products on the market that claim to treat PE and help you last longer in bed – such as desensitizing sprays, creams, pills and “climax control” condoms – these really are short-term fixes. To permanently cure your rapid ejaculation woes, addressing the underlying causes of PE is key. So how do you permanently prevent yourself from ejaculating too early during sex? The answer lies in a natural, time-tested 4-step strategy. Let’s find out below!

Step #1 – Determine the underlying factors of YOUR premature ejaculation

There are several causes for PE, and these affect every guy differently. Among these are stress and anxiety (including ‘performance anxiety’), as well as bad masturbation habits that were picked up from teenage years. Some guys are also unable to control their ejaculation due to problems relating to erectile dysfunction – they rush through sex due to fear of being unable to maintain their erections.

Step #2 – Determine how long you want to last

This is key. Without setting a target of how long you want to last, it is difficult, almost impossible, to eradicate your premature ejaculation because you have no specific end goal in sight. Incrementally increase your target once you reach each milestone. But be realistic. If you are unable to last more than 30 seconds now (seriously, some guys have it this bad!), setting a target of reaching 20 minutes of ‘staying power’ within a week is a surefire way to set yourself up for failure and disappointment.

Step #3 – Maintain a positive attitude and outlook

Like all things that are worth doing, you have to be upbeat about what you are going to achieve. You have to believe you CAN totally and permanently cure your premature ejaculation problem, just like many guys before you who believe they can. Maintain a positive image of what you can do with that extra sexual endurance, and how much more enjoyment you can give to your female partner (and yourself too!).

Step #4 – Stay the course until you achieve your desired outcome!

Learn the proper techniques to improve your time to ejaculation. There are many natural conditioning and training methods, such as arousal control, breathing control, pelvic floor exercises and the correct masturbation techniques that will help increase your sexual stamina. The key is to take consistent action. Your body needs time to adjust to the training and conditioning. By focusing on what you need to do and staying the course, you will dramatically improve how long you will last in bed. Remember, practice makes perfect. Every single time.

About the author:

Lloyd Lester is the creator of “Ejaculation By Command“, a complete, step-by-step blueprint to help men permanently end premature ejaculation and last longer in bed. Learn how you can develop superior sexual endurance and enjoy transformative sex by visiting: Ejaculation By Command.